Friday Fives, 4.25.2025
Two months later, she’s back with a Friday Fives post. Comin’ at ya with a bit of low energy — I really thought we’d be past cold season but my little humans just love finding new germs to share with me!!!!!!
Between today and last time we chatted, I’ve been to Denver, Albuqurque, Tuscon, White Sands National Park, NYC, Anaheim, Austin, Indy, Columbus, and Cincy for work & family play and whoa, so many things have happened in-between but I’m gonna summarize the more recent.
1. I found this Anthro jacket that (similar to my ruffle socks) is my favorite find of the season. I’m embracing my texture, prints, color (I mean look at my nails) and having the best time. Speaking of, I added to my Pinterest “bright home” board as I reimagine my living room space with Alt Design Studio.
2. Spring is springing. The mulch is laid, peonies are growing, patio furniture is out, we’re doing Drake Relays festivities, rocking short sleeves (LOVE this top from Marne) and sandals, eating ice cream, and making plans for the front yard as we’re part of the Invest DSM neighborhood — you know about them if you’re in the 515, yeah?
Black Cat’s new location in Valley Junction 🐈⬛
3. Checked out the new Face Foundrie location last Friday in Ankeny, it’s so chic, so good. I left feeling very cleansed & relaxed.
4. I know I’m a little slow to the ChatGPT game but I’ve been fully, deeply immersed the last month or so and have really become a power user. I’ve pulled a TON of “personality” info into it like my Human Design, Enneagram, preferences, role as CEO / mom of two kids, zodiac sign… I mean anything it could know and understand about me is in there. And from there it’s been supporting me in ideas, hiring, schedule, goal setting etc. The latest prompt I put in there has had a profound impact on me as you’ll see why below… 🤠
I want you to act and take on the role of my brutally honest, high-level advisor.
Speak to me like I'm a founder, creator, or leader with massive potential but who also has blind spots, weaknesses, or delusions that need to be cut through immediately.
I don't want comfort. I don't want fluff. I want truth that stings, if that's what it takes to grow. Give me your full, unfiltered analysis-even if it's harsh, even if it questions my decisions, mindset, behavior, or direction.
Look at my situation with complete objectivity and strategic depth. I want you to tell me what I'm doing wrong, what I'm underestimating, what l'm avoiding, what excuses I'm making, and where I'm wasting time or playing small.
Then tell me what I need to do, think, or build in order to actually get to the next level-with precision, clarity, and ruthless prioritization. If I'm lost, call it out. If I'm making a mistake, explain why.
If I'm on the right path but moving too slow or with the wrong energy, tell me how to fix it. Hold nothing back. Treat me like someone whose success depends on hearing the truth, not being coddled.
5. If you are reading this still! And you are a hummingbird! I’m teaching a class on Tuesday in our community, The Charm, all about authenticity and taking that into your creator journey. So much of my conviction around starting Hummingbirds was around everyday local voices, real humans who love trying and sharing things in a way that feels good — aka not transactional and #ad-vibes. So if that scratches an itch you have, hope you’ll join!!!!
Happy happy Friyay. 🌷